Nov 24, 2014
You have just two hands
For cutting and chopping wood
You have just two hands
My husband is a woodworker and he has an impressive amount of tools in the shop for cutting and chopping wood. From large table saws with impressive blades to tiny knives and files. Yet he can only use his two hands cut wood at any one time.
Likewise, I have an impressive amount of tea utensils for making tea. Yet, I can only use my two hands to make tea.
When we are doing temae, we should be concentrating on one thing at a time. Literally temae means the point in front of you. Handling the utensils should take all of our attention.
There is a proper way to pick up, carry, and put down each utensil. Each hand has its job to do and when it is not working, it has a proper place to be. Part of this is the mindfulness of keeping track of what we are doing. Another part is that using the proper hand to do something sets you up for something after. For example, if you pick up the bowl with your right hand you can immediately put it on your left palm. This also shows respect for the utensils and for the artists who created them.
If you are using two hands to handle or carry something, there is a greater attention to what you are handling. When my children were small and I asked them to use two hands, they paid much more attention what they were doing (less spilled milk). Likewise in the tea room, if you use two hands to handle something you are paying more attention to what you are doing.
Even in the mizuya, it is no place to let our attention lapse. Handle things with two hands. Pick them up and put them down properly. Don't hand something directly to someone in the mizuya. Put it down in front of them, and let them pick it up. It is safer, and more attention is paid to what you are handling on both sides.
Last night, my husband asked me to hand him the TV remote. I remember picking it up with my right hand, transferring it to my left hand, turning it around like a chashaku with my right hand and placing it directly in front of him. He laughed, and told me only a tea person would have done that!
Jun 23, 2013
Paring back to the essential
When we start to study temae, we start with the simplist form called ryakubon, or tray style and progress to more and more complicated procedures. But as we study higher and higher temae, we are actually going back in time to procedures that were done at the beginning of the codefied tea ceremony. What has happened over the years is that things have been pared away so that as we get closer to modern day, things get simpler.
Now that is not to say that procedures get easier. Simpler does not mean easier. In fact, simpler becomes harder because it exposes more and more of the person doing the procedure. Just like Mark Twain said that he wrote you a long letter because he didn't have time to write you a short one, doing a simple temae and making it look natual and beautiful takes a lot of training.
I did a chanoyu demonstration once for a post-graduate course of theater majors on movement. After the demonstration we had a discussion of the procedure and one student said that it didn't look all that hard to do. But he failed to notice that I always entered the room with the right foot and exited with my left. He also failed to notice that when I folded my fukusa all the folds and corners lined up, every single time. He also failed to notice that everything was in its place, and not a centimeter off in a ten foot square space. "It looks so natural," he said, "and simple to do."
Part of living in these times, is that we have very complicated lives. It takes a conscious effort to pare back the things in our lives to essentials. That means we have to take time to decide what is essential to us. What is a want and what is a need? Indeed, Rikyu said, “There is shelter enough if it keeps the rain off, and food enough when it staves off hunger. We draw water, gather firewood, boil the water and make tea.”
I have a couple of students, and some friends in Seattle who do not own a car. They have made the decision that a car is not essential to their lifestyle. This eliminates car payments, insurance, gasoline, and maintenance.
What can you eliminate from your complicated life?
Apr 23, 2013
How to Sharpen Pencils
This book classified in the humor section, but I read it with the seriousness of a technical manual. I used to work in technical publications for a large electronic manufacturer. The author, David Rees, talks about what to do with the shavings and how present the newly sharpened pencil. He also talks about the history of pencil sharpening, the origins of pencils and how pencils are made as well as the care and maintenance of your equipment.
“Each action we take is an act of self-expression. We often think of large-scale or important deeds as being indications of our real selves, but even how we sharpen a pencil can reveal something about our feelings at that moment. Do we sharpen the pencil carefully or nervously so that it doesn’t break? Do we bother to pay attention to what we’re doing? How do we sharpen the same pencil when we’re angry or in a hurry? Is it the same as when we’re calm or unhurried?
Even the smallest movement discloses something about the person executing the action because it is the person who’s actually performing the deed. In other words, action doesn’t happen by itself, we make it happen, and in doing so we leave traces of ourselves on the activity. The mind and body are interrelated.”
― H.E. Davey, Japanese Yoga: The Way of Dynamic Meditation.If one observes closely, there a thousand ways to sharpen a pencil, just as there are a thousand ways to make tea. Different situations and different uses call for different types of sharpened pencils. Different occasions and different guests call for different types of temae.
Some people may consider the art of pencil sharpening as inane as the art of making tea. For those who take it seriously, though, it can be sublime and imbued with meaning. It also illustrates that the attention to detail for something as mundane as sharpening a pencil or making tea can be totally satisfying.
Aug 3, 2012
Kagetsu Koshukai, Beginner's Perspective
I wanted to post today about an experience I had last weekend at a beginning koshukai regarding kagetsu study. Christy Sensai from San Francisco was the Sensai there and gave all of us some great things to think about during the beginning usucha hirodemae temae. (Note: Please forgive me my beginner Japanese spelling. If you see errors, don't hesitate to let me know.) Christy Sensai said that one thing you should always strive for in kagetsu, and for any time you are in the tea room, is matching your timing to the other people in the room. I'm not talking about the host's timing in making tea, but the guest's timing. To put it another way, timing that guests may need to worry about would be bowing together, folding fukusa together, and standing and sitting together. These things should happen at the same time and it looks beautiful and effortless when executed that way. This timing shouldn't be found by craning your necks to the left and right. Just watch the movement from the corner of your eyes. This is something, Christy Sensai said, that a person who studies tea needs to apply to any part of the study of tea. It need not only apply to kagetsu. It means matching the height of your bows appropriately to the people around you. It means being conscious of when people's feet may be asleep so you don't try to stand up too quickly in courtesy to the people around you. It means that tea isn't just about yourself but it's about everyone in the room with you. You are all there to enjoy the experience the host is presenting you. No one should feel ashamed that they can not rise as quickly as the others. Tea is about acceptance and humility. About slowing down where needed and always showing respect to those around you. I was honored to be reminded of such an integral part of the way of tea.
May 16, 2012
Appropriate Dress
The short response is kimono is always appropriate to wear in the tea room. I almost always wear kimono, whether I am teaching, or receiving a bowl of tea in the tea room. If you have kimono and know how to dress, please wear kimono.
What if you do not have kimono? For women, a blouse and skirt or dresses are appropriate (not too short either, you will be sitting on the tatami). Slacks if you don't or won't wear a skirt. Long sleeves, please. For men, loose fitting slacks and button down shirt are appropriate for okeiko. No shorts, jeans, short sleeves, tank tops or sleeveless shirts.
Consider chakai, semi formal events. Kimono is always appropriate. Men in sportcoats and tie, women in long dress, skirt and blouse or jacket. Business attire is also appropriate. This is not the place to wear fleece jackets, jeans or even khakis. Definitely not track suits, sweat pants or even stretch pants or tights. Women please tie your hair up so it doesn't fall in your face or on the back of your neck. Take off your hats when you come inside.
The thing is, tea is not an informal event. Our lifestyles have become so casual nowadays, it is hard to know what is appropriate. Even the women's lacrosse team wore flip-flops to a Whitehouse reception. If you are wearing something that you normally wear around the house, or to run to the store, take it up a notch for okeiko and two notches for chakai. It is good training to recognize what is appropriate to the occasion and dress accordingly.
If you are dressing in kimono, that is another post.
Questions, comments? I'll answer them in the comments.
Apr 26, 2012
The Paradox that is the Way of Tea
— Dr. Soshitsu Sen XV
Feb 6, 2012
Michael Kenna in Hokkaido
I actually got to meet him in Seattle and he signed my first edition of his book, Japan. It came in a beautiful black silk slipcase with an embossed kanji for Nihon on the outside. Inside the book cover is rising sun red with a simple white JAPAN on the outside. As part of the exhibition, you were given a clipboard and paper and encouraged to write haiku as you went around the gallery to view the photos.
He has done much more work since then, in France, San Francisco, England and all of them very much in the same style. I have several of his calendars that I turn over and over again. You can see more if his work here. And if you are so moved to purchase and support this artist, his publisher is Naraeli Press where you can purchase a calendar for this year.
He has returned over and over again to Japan, especially in winter and has published other books based on the Japanese landscape, most recently Hokkaiko. Also here is an interview with Michael Kenna talking about filming in Hokkaido in the winter. Enjoy
Jul 14, 2010
Filling the natsume
One of the most important tasks to prepare for tea is to fill the natsume with the powdered tea. Depending on the shape of the container, the tea inside will have different shapes. When you are using a Rikyu style natsume the tea will be scooped into the container with the chashaku. A soft mound of tea like a hill is formed with the top of the hill coming approximately to the top of the open container and the bottom of the hill coming to the bottom of the line where the lid fits on. I have been taught various ways of doing this, and you will have to choose the one that works for you.
One way is to turn the natsume in your left hand as you scoop tea with the right, turning the natsume to get an even symmetrical hill. You can scoop the tea in without turning the natsume (my preferred method). With a full scoop of tea, gently lay it in the natsume and let it fall sideways off the tea scoop so that it stays soft and fluffy.
When you have a hira or flat natsume the hill of tea is shallower (see picture) and if you have a nakatsugi (middle cut) you make a sharp cone with the tea.
Some people then take a tissue or other tool and break up the clumps of tea on top, so that it is smooth. I don't like to do this, I just scoop the tea in and if I have done it right, there won't be clumps of tea on top. If you have dropped tea around the outside or on the lip that holds the lid, carefully wipe it off with a tissue. Try not to wipe the tissue inside the natsume.
It takes practice to fill the natsume correctly and beautifully. Remember, when you put the natsume out for haiken, the guests will be looking at how well you mounded the tea and how carefully you scooped tea and left the hill intact.
Jul 13, 2010
Waste Not, Want Not
I read an interesting article in The Oregonian today regarding food waste. Here is some fascinating information from that article:
A new study from the National Institute of Health says that a whopping 40% of what farmers grow ends up in the garbage. That number has increased, too: in 1974, just 30% ended up as food waste. The food we throw out consumes 4% of US oil and more than 25% of our fresh water. It produces methane when it rots in our landfills. The marketing of this excess food helps drive the obesity epidemic. Are we producing too much food? The wrong kind of food? Or do we deliver it to the wrong places? Or is it all three?
The article struck a chord in me. We live in a society of excess that I think we, as tea people, struggle with all the time. Using this as an example, we fight waste in our own homes every day. We overfill our plates and scrape leftovers down the garbage disposal or food spoils in our refrigerators. We, as a society, throw away food at the farm, in retail outlets and in our homes. It wastes money and hurts the environment. The four “Rs” (Reduce, Reuse, Recycle and Repair) need to not only be applied to our paper, aluminum and glass but rather ALL of the materials we use in our households.
I challenge you to reduce the amount of food you are throwing away. Cook less, buy only what you and your family will eat or save leftovers for later. Use “normal waste” twice by turning it into yummy soup stock. Feed safe food to your pets or compost waste at home. In the study of tea, we are encouraged to not live life to excess. I encourage you to bring that mind-set into your kitchens.
Jun 2, 2010
Patience, patience
I had a student ask me the other day, "Everyone is making mistakes and you correct everyone over and over again. How can you be so patient?" What is patience? I mean, I was taking time and paying attention, is that what patience is?
How many times have we told ourselves, "I need to be more patient" Lots and lots of things require patience every day. With our jobs, our activities, our kids activities, friends, family, and daily living chores like laundry and grocery shopping, everything competes for our time and attention. Some days it seems like we have barely time enough to breathe. Yet patience takes time, and in our lives we have precious little of that commodity.
In spite of all of our busy lives, we live a life of convenience. My parents had only one car and my dad drove to work. My mom took the bus to work. My grandparents had no car. Necessity makes one patient. When you have little, it just takes more time to do things and so you must plan accordingly. The expectation that things will happen in a certain time frame makes you impatient.
With convenience comes the expectation that things will be easy. When they are not, it makes you impatient. When things don't go as you planned, it makes you impatient. When people don't do as you want, it makes you impatient. When you are not as fast or as good as you thought you were, it makes you impatient. When you are not doing the things we want to do, it makes you impatient.
Clearly, there is a tide of things that contribute to our impatience, but not so much that pulls us to be more patient. Patience is a virtue and we have to work very hard at it. In the tea room is a place to put aside some of the expectations. If we expect nothing, there is nothing to pull us to impatience.
Last week, I was listening to my granddaughter tell me about her day. She was going on and on telling me every little detail -- "First I opened my eyes, then I got up and went downstairs in my jammies. I decided to have cereal for breakfast so I got a bowl and then the Honey Nut cheerios, and a spoon. I opened the refrigerator and got out the milk. Then I opened the milk...." It went on and one like this for about 20 minutes. But you know, I wasn't impatient. I listened to her with love. When I have loving thoughts about that little girl, I have all the patience I need.
May 30, 2010
Sitting seiza for tea
One of the most difficult things about studying tea is sitting seiza. As I am getting older, it is getting more difficult for me to sit for long periods of time. I do tell my students that like any other physical activity (and sitting seiza is a physical activity) you must get in shape.
Sensei once told my husband when he first began to study tea, to sit in the bathtub at home. He did, but it was so painful for him that he thought that sensei recommended it because it was almost a relief to sit on tatami after sitting on the cold porcelain! What she forgot to tell him was to fill the bath with hot water so that it would relax the muscles and tendons and help buoy up his weight.
Seriously, sitting seiza does not come naturally to us. I tell my students that they need to get into shape. Sitting once a week will only get you so far. It helps to sit a little bit every day and work up to longer and longer periods of sitting. I have my laptop computer on the coffee table and sit seiza while working on computer for as long as I can before I rest, or I sit seiza while watching TV to keep in shape. Breathing, and keeping your mind focused on your temae will also help.
Sometimes, sitting on the meditation seat helps, especially with the ankles. New students usually need a sitting aid such as this stool. One thing to be very sure of is if your feet and ankles are numb, please be very careful and not get up until you get the feeling back into your feet. We have time, and a good first guest will be able to tell a story, or discuss some aspect of the tea room, or utensils to help distract the other guests while the host recovers feeling in his legs. You can purchase one of these seats from SweetPersimmon.com. It comes in its own little carry bag that gives you a little extra padding, too.
Another thing that I have discovered that helps is acupuncture. In fact, if you are in Portland, I recommend Working Class Acupuncture, because they charge a sliding scale $15-35 per visit. Very affordable. It is community acupuncture. They treat you in lounge chairs in one big room. You can stay for as long as you like. You can find other community acupuncture clinics all over the U.S.
Besides the pain of sitting seiza, acupuncture will help with a lot of other things, too.
May 9, 2010
Tea utensils that will last 400 years
There are many examples of tea utensils from the 16th century and earlier because they were so well taken care of. Tea utensils were made to be used rather than put away in the closet, never to see the light of day. So get out your tea utensils (dogu) and use them, but take care of them as if you want them to last 400 years.
I remember my sensei teaching me how to care for the iron kettle after class, how to wash and dry teabowls, and care for lacquer with gloves. There is a certain way to tie the boxes that dogu come in so that you can stack them. Paying attention to detail with thoughtfulness and carefulness shows respect for the dogu, but also for yourself. The attention to detail in taking care of your dogu shows more about your character and state of mind than how perfect your temae is.
Taking care of your dogu doesn't just apply to tea utensils, it is how you treat everything in your life. Like the famous baseball player Ichiro:
The man whose first name has come to symbolize greatness in hitting might also be the most meticulous player when it comes to caring for the tools of his trade. He rubs the soles of his feet every day with a rounded wooden stick. He cleans his own spikes and glove after games. And he prefers to carry his own bats, which are cut from Japanese ash wood called aodamo and custom made from specs chosen by Ichiro on a tour of the Mizuno factory in Japan in 1992. "I've never seen anybody that I've played with take care of their equipment with just carefulness, thoughtfulness. Most guys throw their gloves around. Not him," he said. "He told me that when he cleans his glove up after the game, that means he's already thought about the game that day and while he's wiping it off he is wiping off the game that day."
Want more detailed information on how to care for your tea utensils? Here's a post written by Gary-sensei.
Apr 8, 2010
After a tea gathering
"After host and guest have expressed their feelings of regret and after the final farewells have been said, the guests depart through the roji (garden). They do not call out in loud voices, but turn silently for one last look. The host, moved, watches them until they are gone from sight. It would not do for him to rush about closing the naka-kuguri, the sarudo, and the other doors, for this would make the day's entertainment meaningless. Even though it is not possible to see the guests returning to their homes, the host should not put things in order quickly. Rather, he should return quietly to the setting of the tea gathering and, crawling through the nijiguchi, seat himself before the hearth. Wishing to speak longer with his guests, he must wonder how far they have gotten on their ways home. This "one time, one meeting" has come to an end, and the host reflects upon the fact that it can never be repeated. The highest point of a tea meeting is, in fact, to have a cup of tea alone at this time. All is quiet, and the host can talk to no one but the kettle. This is a state in which nothing else exists, a state that cannot be known unless one has attained it oneself."
~ from Chanoyu Ichie Shu by Ii Naosuke
Jun 18, 2009
Take a left before you get to the Buddha
Certainly I am not a Zen student, I know very little about Zen. But I was on my way to the yoga class at the Dai Bosatsu Zen monastery, and I didn't know how to get to the library where the class was held. I had already wandered around and run into a room where the monks were chanting and nearly smacked into the Roshi during the services, so I didn't want to disturb them any further.
I asked around and these were the instructions on how to get there: "Go up to the second floor and take a left before you get to the Buddha." It rather struck me as funny that I would have to take a left before I got to the Buddha in a Zen monastery, but I suppose we all take detours in our life. I can also see this as a metaphor in following teachings that tell you to take a left before you get to the Buddha. If you took that left you would end up in the library with lots of words, and words could become confusing (at least to me) about Zen.
On the other hand, the yoga class was just what I needed. I never had yoga before. I am so stiff I cannot sit half lotus when sitting zazen. I have never taken a yoga class, and Jimin our instructor, said that she would not get so hung up on correct positions but make it more of a meditative experience. Through gentle stretches, breathing and the sound of her voice, I opened up my body. In opening my body, I am sure that I opened my mind and my spirit as well, to take in what was going on around me. Not just the things that were planned and happenstance to do with the tea group, but I became aware of the monks as they went about their work and worship in the monastery. Ah, "Zen cha ichi mi" or Zen and tea, one taste.
*Photo courtesy of Morgan Beard
Apr 2, 2009
Pay attention to what you are doing
No matter how many times we have done temae, it is always good to pay attention to what we are doing. One of the things Christy sensei emphasized in koshukai is the precision with which we do temae. First of all make sure that the orientation of your body is correct. Especially in the winter season, there is a difference in centering your body with the outside corner of the hearth frame and the inside corner. There may be less than an inch in difference, but it changes the position of all the utensils as you use them. Your left knee should also come up to be even with the corner of the hearth frame, and the space of 16 tatami weaves should be in front of you. Also make sure that your body is centered with the outside line of the hearth frame when speaking with guests and putting out the haiken utensils.
One thing many students become sloppy with is picking up and moving utensils. When the left hand or the right hand picks up or puts down the bowl make sure it is precisely at 9 o’clock or three o’clock on the bowl. There are certain times to pick up the bowl or set it down at 5 o’clock or 7 o’clock. Know when to use these different handling techniques and why. When transferring the bowl or the hishaku (water scoop) make sure that changing hands occurs in the center of the body. A lot of students tend to transfer the utensils from one hand to another on the way to where ever it is traveling.
After purifying natsume or chaire, the fukusa is squeezed in the right hand, but then it comes just over the right knee. If you pull your hand up your leg near your body, you get this chicken wing effect as you put down the tea container that looks awkward and funny.
Finally, make sure you have good posture. Not only do you look better in kimono if you have good posture, but also when making tea, sit with a straight back and not too close to the bowl. Bow with a straight back and do not put your weight on your hands while you are doing it.
We all learned these things as basics, but it is always a good reminder to pay attention to what we are doing in temae, even if we have done them a hundred times before.
Oct 27, 2008
Intimate Silence
In the previous post, The host revealed, and by questions at tea demonstrations, I have been asked again and again about how much talking is allowed at a tea ceremony. While talking is not forbidden, there are appropriate subjects and times that guests and host can communicate.
In America, we are not usually comfortable with silence and talk to fill it or cover the perceived awkwardness. It seems more friendly and attentive to comment and chat about what is going on in the tea room.
If there is conversation in the tea room, most of it will take place between the shokyaku or main guest, and the host. It is the responsibility of the shokyaku to speak for the guests and to anticipate the questions the guests may have and to time the conversations so that the harmony and flow of the ceremony is enhanced and not disrupted. Other guests may address the shokyaku to ask the host questions and the shokyaku will find an appropriate time to ask the host.
It is in fact, more respectful at a tea ceremony to be silent and pay careful attention as the host goes through the procedures for making tea. Conversation, questions and chat during this time takes attention away from what the host is doing. For the host, his full attention should be on serving the guests. And for the guests, their full attention should be on receiving what the host has prepared and appreciation for everything the host has done in preparation/
Communications are subtle and nuanced in the silence and unspoken feelings can be intensified by a mere glance or gesture. In many ways, this careful attention on both sides creates an intimacy that cannot be achieved through conversation and talking.
Aug 20, 2008
Multitasking is not a virtue
In our over scheduled modern life, multitasking is seen as skill that to be praised and applauded. My husband used to watch television, read the paper and listen to me talk with him all at the same time. If you can answer email, return phone calls, finish a report and surf the internet during meeting, it is seen as being both efficient and productive. Talking on the cell phone while driving, doing homework with the radio or TV on and texting friends, searching the internet or talking on the phone – we try to cram in more information more action to save time.
But research* determined that for various types of tasks, subjects lost time when they had to switch from one task to another. These "time costs" increased with the complexity of the chores: It took longer, say researchers Rubinstein and Meyer, for subjects to switch between more complicated tasks. Not being able to concentrate for, say, tens of minutes at a time, may mean it's costing a company as much as 20 to 40 percent in terms of potential efficiency lost, or the "time cost" of switching, as these researchers call it.
Multitasking is not a virtue in Chado. Making tea is a complicated procedure and sensei says, “Complete this moment before going on to the next.” Over 400 years in the making and serving tea, it has been refined to be the most efficient and beautiful way of doing it. My own poor brain begins to shut down if I try to multitask while making tea. Even talking and making tea makes me freeze up. Either I stop making tea, or I stop talking. It is difficult to do both at once.
There is another reason multitasking is not held in high esteem in the tea room. It prevents you from being in the present. It prevents you from concentrating on making the very best tea for your guests. “When you make tea, make tea. When you are drinking tea, drink tea – nothing more.”
* “Executive Control of Cognitive Processes in Task Switching" American Psychological Association's Journal of Experimental Psychology: Human Perception and Performance
Jun 11, 2008
The art of craftsmanship
There has always been an ongoing debate of craft vs. art. My husband is a woodworker and when he looks at art pieces he sometimes is disgusted with conceptual art pieces that show sloppy execution. When we went to the Smithsonian Renwick Gallery in Washington D.C, there were wood furniture and studio craft art pieces that were exquisite. Every single one of them so finely crafted. Truly these creators were masters of their medium, whether it was glass, wood, ceramics or metal. The care and precision in making the pieces were readily apparent.
We have a friend who has a couple of works purchased by the museum. He has been a wood worker for more than 30 years. He talks about no do overs with wood. Once it is cut, you can’t put it back together and cut it again, so it must be right the first time. He also talks about wood being a living medium, in that wood once was a living substance unlike clay, or metal or glass. Wood even after it is cut and worked continues as a living substance. It breathes, for instance. When there is humidity in the air it expands, and when it is dry it shrinks. So a woodworker who is also a craftsman will take this into account and design and build his pieces so that the movement of the wood will not break it apart or show gaps at the joints.
Craftsmanship like this takes more time and more attention to detail. It is a self discipline in that the artist determines how precise and how perfect the finished product has to be before it is acceptable. Tea has so many opportunities to make a decision of how precise and perfect our work is to be acceptable.
When I first began my tea studies, I really didn’t care if my fingers were open or closed. I didn’t pay attention to what hand I used to pick up and put down the tea bowl or if I was sitting precisely 16 tatami weaves back from the black border. What did any of these things matter when making or drinking tea? Close was good enough for me.
And yet, because Chado is a 400 year tradition, refined and modified to be efficient and beautiful, all of these things matter. Making and drinking tea is about tea, but it is also a great canvas to experiment and exercise your creativity. It is also an opportunity to explore your own personal standards and level of craftsmanship.
Apr 27, 2008
Time for reflection
There is a point in temae where you hold the water scoop in a certain position called “kokoro no kagami,” translated, that means mirror of the heart and there is a pause here in the procedure. As in many of the things about tea practice, it allows us to look at things is new ways.
Reflection can mean many things, including the return of light, heat, or sound, etc. after striking a surface; a fixing of the thoughts on something; or careful consideration; as well as a thought occurring in consideration or meditation.
And so the mirror of the heart can mean many things, too. It can mean the return of the heart between host and guest. I like this explanation in the context of chanoyu, the host and guest each reflecting their hearts to each other and sharing the experience as one.
But we can also take it another way as in careful consideration of the heart. To examine what is in your heart and what your intentions are. Tea practice can be a time of self examination of how you conduct yourself. By clearing away all the hidden agendas, the petty jealousies, the competitiveness, and the imagined hurts is one way that the host purifies himself so that by the time he is ready to make tea for the guest, there is only the pure intention of making a good bowl of tea. This is one of the principles of tea – purity.
Kokoro no kagami is seeing the true reflection from your heart, or even the true reflection of your heart could be like seeing into your own true nature. Since nobody else can see this, it is a time for honesty and reflection.
The kokoro no kagami also reminds us to polish the mirror by striving to improve ourselves through the cleansing of our intentions. The mirror shows us our true nature. Like housework, it is never done. You must continue to remove the dust of the world and be vigilant.
Apr 13, 2008
Working without a net
We had a chabana flower arranging lesson in class recently. Chabana is different from the more well known Japanese flower arranging study of Ikebana. Chabana is flower arranging for tea. According to Rikyu’s rules, one should arrange the flowers as if they were growing in the field. Chabana is also known as thrown in flowers – that is, the flowers are arranged in one breath and put in the vase.
I have already mentioned about looking at flowers before picking them so that you know how they grow and can arrange them according to their nature. Quite often we have an image of how the flowers should look in the vase and then when we put them in, they droop or twist around. Arranging flowers in one breath means to be able to let go and let the flowers arrange themselves. There is the temptation to “fix” the flowers by moving them again and again after they are put in the vase, not just let them do what they would do naturally and leave them alone.
You only get one chance to arrange the flowers, then you have to let them go. It is like doing crosswords with a pen or calligraphy on rice paper. Once you put the mark down, you cannot go back and change it. It becomes what it is at that moment in time. My husband is a woodworker and with wood you only get one chance to cut the wood.
If we are doing things with intention, you don’t go back and re-do it. This is what he refers to as working without a net.







