Someone referred to me recently as a tea master, and I was embarrassed enough to correct them by saying I was still a student of tea. In truth I still feel like such a novice on this path; there is still so much to learn.
They say that it takes about 10,000 hours to become an expert at something. By that definition, if you went to keiko for an hour and a half once a week, it would take a little more than 128 years for you to become an expert at chado, at least 2 lifetimes and perhaps more if you don't count formative years.
We could take a single aspect of the way of tea, tea ceramics, for example, and say you spent 40 hours a week just immersed in it, it would still take you nearly 5 years to become an expert. Yet you could spend 30 years studying tea ceramics and still not know all there was to know about it. Take that and multiply it by the many other aspects of the way of tea: flower arranging, gardening, architecture, calligraphy, cooking, sweet making, literature, poetry, history, etiquette, kimono, wood working, lacquer, Zen, and those years add up very quickly. Not to mention studying the hundreds of tea procedures, tea utensils and types of tea gatherings.
When people are first exposed to chanoyu, it seems so deceptively simple that anyone can do it. What they don't know is that it has taken years of practice to make it look simple. But even people just coming upon it can tell the difference between a beginner and a more experienced tea person. Why is that?
I believe that watching an experienced tea person, you are not just seeing the procedure for making tea. You are experiencing the heart of chanoyu. The experienced practitioner imbues the temae with his or her heart and consideration for others. When you and your body know the procedure by heart, you don't need to think about what comes next. You can free your mind to concentrate on the guest. There is no room for stage fright, or making mistakes. The movements flow and awareness and feelings fill the room. When the guest is experienced too, there is a magic that happens as host and guest become one. Both are of the same mind and both contribute to creating an almost transcendent experience, often without a word being spoken.
This has happened to me just a few times in my years of study, when everything comes together. I do hope that all tea students out there are willing to put in the hard work to be prepared for something like this. Is it mastery? I don't know. It is the way of tea.