Sep 10, 2008

When is the best time for Chado?

I have a new class of tea students in my Introduction to Tea Ceremony class. I want to thank them for committing the next ten weeks to the study of tea. There were others who were interested in the class, but did not sign up or did not show up for the first class. The reasons? Many and many reasons: I don’t have enough time, I don’t have enough money, it’s too far to drive, my life is too busy, I can’t commit to ten weeks. So when is the best time to for Chado?

When I had taken a new job that involved a lot of international travel and executive responsibility. I always took my traveling tea set with me and invited people to have tea with me while I was traveling. Even though I had little time, it was the best time for Chado.

I got layed off from my job after the dot com crash, I didn’t have a lot of money. We had to redo our household budget and cut back on everything considered luxuries. I continued to make tea for people. Even though I had little money, after I was layed off was the best time for Chado.

When my mother was sick with cancer I went to take care of her. Through those hard days, I continued to make tea for her and for my family. Even though I was emotionally upset that my mother was dying, it was the best time for Chado.

For twenty years my tea classes were on the other side of town. To get to tea class, I drove in rush our traffic sometimes for 3 hours. Some days I really dreaded getting on the freeway to go to class. But going home, I always reflected that I was so glad that I braved the traffic and went to class. When is the best time for Chado? The best time for Chado is right now.

4 comments:

  1. a focus, clear and peaceful mind is the best moment for tea. Thank you for sharing should an encouraging post. Toki

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  2. Toki,
    Thank you for your comment. I also think that the most muddy confused mind is the best moment for tea. When I have been most upset, the ritual of cleaning the tea room and making tea has calmed me down.

    Take care,
    Margie

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  3. While demonstrating Japanese Embroidery at a Show recently, time and time again I heard, I don't have the patience to do that.

    Each time I replied, we all have the patience to do things we want to do.

    I thin the same applies to time.

    CA

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  4. Welcome back coral-seas,
    Thank you for your comment. I agree with you. For the things we want to do we can have the time, the patience, the money. Some one once told me to see where someone's priorities are, look at where they spend their time and money.

    Take care,
    Margie

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